Top, Bottom, Versa and BDSM; what does it mean?
Are you top, bottom or versa? Is someone asking you this? Then you may wonder what this means exactly. The question with the three terms can be asked if you are gay, but you can also get this question as a heterosexual. You are chatting and your conversation partner says you are a top. What does it mean and what are you? Top, bottom or versa are three terms that refer to a sexual position. The simple explanation is "who sticks his dick in the other," but it is a bit more complicated than that. As a woman you can also be a top. Or you can have a penis, be top, but don't stick it anywhere.
You can also read these terms as on top, bottom or both, but that is also not entirely true. It is mainly about who penetrates who. For example, you are also at the top if you are at the bottom and someone is penetrating. According to the position, you are the bottom but you are still a top. In most cases you can indicate your sexual role with top, bottom and versa; what you want and how you are. Think of it as a short guide to a happy ending.
Sometimes it is not about sex, but about control. The top is the dominant party in this case; the person in charge. In this case the top has the final say on issues such as; what kind of sex they have, how they do it, or who is the leader in the relationship.
The bottom in this situation is the person with the subordinate role. For example, the bottom obeys if the top wants him or her to do something. Or the bottom is more dependent on the top than the other way around. This is possible with permission but also without permission.
Among gay men, the three terms are a way to distinguish each other and bring them together at the same time. Among heterosexuals it is used to indicate preferences, for example during a sex date or bdsm appointment.
Speaking of BDSM, there are a number of gays who love BDSM. These persons are therefore all looking for an exciting BDSM sex dates. Sometimes it is a one-time one-night stand and in other cases it is a more serious date they are looking for. In both cases, BDSM is central where one gives the assignments, is dominant within the relationship and the other performs the assignments, is kind of a willing sex "slave”. It is important that it remains exciting and fun for both parties.
Have you recently come to the conclusion that you really want to be submissive or, conversely, dominant in a relationship and do you want to get in touch with other gay people, who are also open to BDSM? Do you find it is not that easy to find a suitable date and do you need some help with that? Then it's best to sign up on a GAY BDSM Dating website. On this specific website there are usually a number of members, all of whom are also looking for an exciting BDSM date. So start today with finding your Special BDSM date.
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